Ten years ago today

by , posted on February 9th, 2012 in Mama Kat's Writing Workshop




Ten years ago today, I was a newlywed; we’d gotten married on the beach in December, because when you’re a baseball writer with barely two months of offseason, you need to fit in the wedding when you can. Living in SoCal is also helpful in these circumstances.

I also was about to leave for Tempe, Arizona, and spring training, which meant six weeks of red clay in my shoes, endless hours of waiting to talk to players and the manager and the coaching staff and front office personel, and the unpleasant odor from the huge stainless steel bowl of tuna salad that sat on the spread table in the hallway (and yes, even today, when I think of spring training, I can still smell that tuna salad). We’d spend a lot of time in that hallway, when the clubhouse was closed or we were waiting to talk to the manager, whose office a few doors down.

No one knew that the six weeks (during which I maybe had two days off) would be followed by the longest regular-season in team history. The Angels would end up playing – and winning – Game 7 of the World Series. I would work weeks without a day off, including flying across the country and back, and to the midwest and back, and to San Francisco and back. It was thrilling and exhausting and stressful and amazing.

And I had no idea the next spring training would be my last, that the two pink lines I saw the day after I returned home would irrevocably change my life.

But 10 years ago today, all I knew was I was leaving my husband of almost two months to spend another two months with men who weren’t him.

And it sucked.

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22 Responses to “Ten years ago today”

  1. Linda Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 5:46 am

    Wow! Brilliant job of keeping my interest through to the surprise ending!
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  2. dumb mom Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 7:50 am

    It sounds awesome. Lol:). Oh, and I forgot you were a baseball writer. I bet you know my uncle! He’s a former Oakland A’s MLBer who coached w/the Diamondbacks when they were awesome (like 2000 I think) and is now with Toronoto. Go ahead and Jeopardy answer me if you know who it is!
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Who is it?

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  3. Mommy Boots Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 8:48 am

    I could almost smell the tuna salad myself. I don’t know how I would’ve felt if I’d had to leave my new husband for that long!

    Stopped by from the Workshop!
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  4. angela Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 9:53 am

    I’m sure there were parts of your job that were exciting and new, but I think you did such a lovely job here of sharing how difficult it was for you at that particular time in your life.

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    Arnebya Reply:

    I am in such a silly mood today, Angela. I immediately sang The Love Boat when I read “exciting and new.” I should lie down now. Or eat.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Being away was not fun, nor was smelling that tuna salad. But there were parts that were pretty cool, and those are the parts I miss.

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  5. Arnebya Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 1:11 pm

    It sounds incredibly exciting, especially as a young woman. Wow. But yeah, that long away, and as newlyweds? I’m sure that was excrutiating.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Exciting? Not so much. Well, sometimes. Moments of excitement sandwich between hours of monotony. :)

    It was definitely tough being away so much back then. Now, what i wouldn’t give for a weekend or two off!

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  6. Shell Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 1:16 pm

    What changes in 10 years!
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    Cheryl Reply:

    It’s sad when you can really break your life down in series of decades! On the other hand, you’re right – a TON happened!

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  7. Cindee Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 1:40 pm

    Wow it sounds so exciting to everyone else, (I have an angel sign in our yard) lol but walking in someones shoes is different. Congrats on those two pink stripes that rock your world. Curious who do you root for??
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  8. John Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 2:30 pm

    I, honestly, don’t know how people who are married, but don’t live together, do it . . . good for you two for making it work.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    It was only six weeks. And then most of the next seven months. :)

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  9. Jen Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 2:34 pm

    It’s funny where life takes us. Ten years ago, I was in my last semester of college, planning a wedding and freaking out about state nursing boards.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Last semester of college? Ack! That was me (more than) 20 years ago!

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  10. Cameron Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 2:59 pm

    That is a lot in ten years. Congrats and well done; now go kick the next ten’s ass!

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    Cheryl Reply:

    I wish I had the energy I had 10 years ago..

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  11. Varda (SquashedMom) Says:

    February 9th, 2012 at 5:55 pm

    What a time… doesn’t it seem the memories of our b.c. (before children) days are so, so different?

    And ten years ago today, *I* was 15 weeks pregnant with my boys. Probably puking. Hmm, maybe I’ll go write a post about it!
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    Cheryl Reply:

    I’m just glad I lived a life before I had them, even though this makes me an older mom, especially to Xander. I guess it’s a tradeoff!

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  12. Jessica Says:

    February 13th, 2012 at 8:19 am

    Crazy how much life can change. And you conjured up that tuna salad a little too realistically for me, it’s wrecking the coffee I am drinking. xo
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  13. julie gardner Says:

    February 13th, 2012 at 5:03 pm

    Happy anniversary, lovely lady.
    And yummmmm tuna.

    Bill left the day after our wedding for two weeks of training at a new job. So we did not take a honeymoon. Instead, I took him to the airport.

    We hadn’t even opened our gifts yet.

    Sucked – indeed. But. It was the beginning of a new life and worth it. I couldn’t have imagined our lives fifteen years later.

    And yet. Here we are.

    Cheers to finding the right one…who also happens to be worth the wait.
    XO
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