Sarah Burke – her light still shines

by , posted on January 27th, 2012 in Just me




I did not know Sarah Burke. And yet, since she died last week at the age of 29 after a skiing accident, I can’t stop thinking about her.

Sarah was a freeskiing icon. She was also a true pioneer. She pushed for the sport’s inclusion in the X Games, in which she won four gold medals, and in her greatest accomplishment, halfpipe skiing will be included for the first time in the 2014 Winter Olympics.

She will not get the chance to go for the gold she was favored to win, the one she’d always dreamed of hanging around her neck. She ruptured her vertebral artery in a routine training run Jan. 10, then went into cardiac arrest. Her brain was deprived of oxygen, and though the surgery to repair the artery was successful, the damage to her brain was irreversible. She died nine days after her accident, with her family around her.

In looking at videos and photos and reading stories about her, Sarah was beautiful and, from all accounts, humble and kind and supportive of all women, even her competitors. She was the inspiration for many female skiers and, in her memory, will continue to be one.

But that’s not what touched me so much about her. She met her husband, pro skier Rory Bushfield, when they were barely teenagers. They married in 2010. There is a video clip that shows the two of them talking about each other, and the way they look at each other…I don’t know how he’s going to survive this loss.

They were free spirits who loved the mountains and each other. Maybe it’s living on the edge all the time, pushing that envelope, that makes them seem so alive. And when they die, it is that much more shocking. I hope Rory will find peace in the quiet of those mountains, in time.

Sarah lived life to the fullest, with passion and determination, and she was memorialized at the X Games on Thursday night. The lights went out on the superpipe and a procession of Sarah’s friends, coaches and fellow competitors made their way down, holding torches to light the way to the bottom where Rory (he’s wearing the green coat with the hood) and Sarah’s family waited.

It was beautiful. And sad.

I didn’t know Sarah Burke. But my thoughts are with her husband, who lost the love of his life, and for her family, who are now without a daughter, a sister, a friend.

The world will not be the same without her.

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33 Responses to “Sarah Burke – her light still shines”

  1. Jessica Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 4:28 am

    I, too, felt so drawn to her story.

    I hadn’t even heard of her until I watch this story unfold on the news.

    I don’t know WHAT it was. Maybe her age? So, so young. And, as you said, obviously such a wonderful, wonderful person.

    Things like this really force me to stop and think and live more carefully. Her family is in my thoughts – especially her husband.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    I think it’s the way she approached each day with such energy, how much fun she seemed to be having, and the love she and her husband shared. She was an amazing person, and I think the amount of people who’ve didn’t know her but our moved by her, which is the best tribute to her.

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  2. Varda (SquashedMom) Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 8:30 am

    Oh, man, this stuff really tears me up. And at this point, as a Mom, I keep thinking about how she’s somebody’s daughter, too. It’s a good reminder to embrace life fully & passionately, as she obviously did. Thanks.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    It’s an excellent reminder. Those who loved her have a tough road ahead.

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  3. Jeannine Chanin Penn Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 12:54 pm

    I red this much earlier from iPad and bed – it hasn’t left me –
    I totally understand why she and this has moved you

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    Cheryl Reply:

    I think the story of her, and of her and Rory, will absolutely stay with me a long time.

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  4. Mad Woman behind the Blog Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 2:10 pm

    “My dream was always to win the Olympics.” #HeartBroken
    Oh Cheryl. I don’t know that I like you much for sharing this with me. ugh. This is going to stick with me.

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    Cheryl Reply:

    Two absolutely beautiful people who did what they loved to do – and had an amazing love for each other. It will definitely stick with me for awhile.

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  5. Deborah Stambler Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    What would a morning be without tearing up over the loss of a beautiful, vibrant, passionate young woman? Sigh.

    The phrase calculated risks keeps running through my head. But truly, she died too young.

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    Cheryl Reply:

    I’m sure she knew the risks. What’s weird is it happened during a fairly routine practice run, with a move that wasn’t especially difficult. Something flukey happened, and unfortunately, it ended her life. Just tragic.

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    Deborah Stambler Reply:

    I tell myself in rock climbing that I’m taking a calculated risk. We all do things like this. For her, it’s just tragic.
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  6. Shannon Colleary Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 3:01 pm

    It’s shocking when someone so indestructibly alive is gone in a moment.

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    Cheryl Reply:

    Exactly. It’s tough to fathom.

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  7. Kimberly Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 3:55 pm

    It was definitely one sad day in Canada.
    She was amazing.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    She really was, wasn’t she? A huge loss for so many people. Her parents should be incredibly proud of how many people their daughter touched in such a short time. And then she donated her organs and tissues so others could live.

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  8. laura Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 4:08 pm

    *tears*
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    Cheryl Reply:

    I know..

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  9. julie gardner Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 6:45 pm

    I got chills when Rory and Sarah said in their interview – with regards to the mountains -”It’s where we met, play, live. Hopefully where we’ll die.”

    Really?

    They couldn’t have known.

    So I read something like this and I think, “If they hadn’t encouraged her to ski she’d be alive!”

    But really. We all take risks and life throws us curves and people have accidents that can’t be predicted every day.

    At least this woman had so much love around her, so much encouragement and success in her short time.

    DAMN, though. What a loss.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    It’s true. She knew there were risks – she’d broken her back, torn her shoulder, had countless other broken bones – and still, she loved it so much she couldn’t stay away. You should see some of the stuff her husband does – he gets dropped off by helicopters to ski, he does double back flips into a canal in Venice of the top of a bridge. Total daredevil. The guy I think has six fake teeth and said he’s smashed them out four times. But yet he keeps going, keeps doing stuff that would scare the bejeebus out of most people. It’s so incredibly fascinating to me.

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  10. tania Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 10:19 pm

    same thing happen to me. I’ve heard about Sarah but didn’t follow her career. She will me be missed. great post!

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    Cheryl Reply:

    Thank you!

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  11. Jamie Says:

    January 27th, 2012 at 11:09 pm

    Tragic!

    I hate hearing things like this.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Yes, it’s a big loss for the skiing community, for her husband, family and friends, or for anyone touched by her story.

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  12. vanessa Says:

    January 28th, 2012 at 12:36 am

    such a sad tragedy. loss of such a talent.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Yes. Truly sad.

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  13. Caryn B Says:

    January 28th, 2012 at 2:07 am

    : ( She was so young and accomplished and inspirational. I can’t even imagine. So often we hear about a death but it doesn’t really resonate until we stop and think about the fact that this was someone’s parent, child, sibling, friend….
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    Cheryl Reply:

    I know. Her reach in her short life was just amazing and inspirational.

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  14. Yolanda Says:

    January 28th, 2012 at 3:35 am

    How sad! I hate reading about anyone dying young, but more so when they had so much more to live for. My thoughts are with her family.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    And she had a lot to live for. So very sad.

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  15. Wendy Says:

    January 28th, 2012 at 2:55 pm

    You know what else makes her amazing? She donated her tissue and organs too.

    What a devastating loss to the sport and the world.
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  16. Shelby Barone Says:

    January 28th, 2012 at 6:12 pm

    It is such a powerful reminder to appreciate life. The world lost an amazing person – who left making the world a better place.

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  17. Rudri Bhatt Patel @ Being Rudri Says:

    January 31st, 2012 at 10:37 pm

    What a beautiful tribute. Thanks for calling attention to her life and what she leaves behind.
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  18. jenny Says:

    February 6th, 2012 at 4:13 pm

    I too have become a tat bit obsessed with their beautiful love story and the saddness of the tradgedy. So sad for her husband and family. My heart hurts for Rory.

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