Bringing Jungle back

by , posted on February 23rd, 2011 in Just me




The phone rang a few minutes before we had to leave for Little League practice.

I checked the caller ID (yep, I’m one of THOSE) and I saw the call was from the University of Connecticut. My alma mater.

Two things were apparent:

1) They don’t have my number, so someone had to have given it to them, someone who knows me, someone, say, like my own mother.

2) My own mother sold me out. She tired of having to not answer calls from them, and of throwing out the mail that somehow followed her from Connecticut to Seattle some 15 years ago.

So I took the call. Why not? And a very nice student named Chelsea started her spiel. She did not count on having me on the other end, wearing my UConn sweatshirt (for reals!), and, as always, desperate for adult conversation by that point in the day.

We chatted about the campus, whether my two favorite bars – Ted’s and Huskies – were still there (they are).

I told her I lived in the Jungle. The Jungle was a set of 11 dorms arranged in a horseshoe around an open grassy area. It was very loud, very social, and not a bad place to live as an underclassman trying to find free beer meet people.

The parties. The parties. The guys would line huge garbage cans with plastic bags and drag them into the shower, where they’d make fruit punch and then pour in three tons of grain alcohol.

During the first real snow we’d fill whatever containers we could find and bring them back into the dorm, where we’d nail people with snowballs from the second floor. The first warm spring day, girls would get in their bikinis and lie on a hill behind the dorms, on what we called Jungle Beach.

And when UConn’s mens basketball team won the NIT in ’88 – yes, this is before they got REALLY good – we showed our excitement over being #65 in the country by pulling furniture out into the quad and setting it ablaze, starting an enormous bonfire.

I mean, it was the Jungle.

Chelsea said something about North Campus.

I tried to remember where that was. Then she said she used to live in the dorm called New London. And I lived in Windham – the two dorms were connected to each other in that horseshoe. Called the Jungle.

“You mean North Campus,” she said.

“Wait. You don’t call it the Jungle anymore?”

“Well,” said young Chelsea, her dagger poised and ready. “My dad calls it that.”

And after I got over the shock and pain of someone so young being so cruel, and when I realized that I was in fact old enough to be this woman’s mother, I got to thinking. When did it stop being called the Jungle? How was that even possible? I mean, it was THE JUNGLE.

It rocked my world.

I don’t get out much.

Especially not to Connecticut. I haven’t been back in the state since 2006. And I can’t remember the last time I went to the campus. Maybe 1999?

Apparently, things have changed.

Which is why I told Chelsea what she must do.

She must bring the Jungle back.

It’d be so retro.

Retro is cool.

Right?

I’m not sure anymore. That phone call aged me in dog years.

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42 Responses to “Bringing Jungle back”

  1. Erin Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:21 am

    I so know this feeling! Although I haven’t had anyone call from my college. BUT, when I went to BBC in SF, I went to all my old stomping grounds, half of which were not there anymore. Could it seriously be possible that I graduated college in 1994?? *sigh* I’m old!

    And I agree….Retro is cool! =)
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  2. Theresa Sonoda Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:28 am

    Those younguns love to shoot those age daggers, don’t they? Both my sons are guilty as hell and think it’s highly amusing. Me, not so much.

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  3. Practical Parenting Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:50 am

    Haha! I’m from CT…although I went to BC so I didn’t get to enjoy the jungle. I hope she brings it back for you. I never take those calls…but they try every night at 6pm!
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  4. JDaniel4's Mom Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 7:59 am

    My college campus has changed so much since I attended. I almost didn’t recognize it the last time I visited.

    Hope the Jungle comes back!
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  5. Victoria KP Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 8:16 am

    Ouch! Young whippersnappers!
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  6. myevil3yearold Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 8:32 am

    and you could play Guns-n- Roses “Welcome to the Jungle” as your theme song.
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  7. Whitney Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 8:44 am

    I always get a little sad when I go back to Trinity & see new buildings or hear they have named something a different name… I have a similar story, when I was at school, my senior year I lived in “New Dorm.” Apparently there’s long been another New Dorm and it has some other name – sad! I’m actually going back for my 15 year this spring, I’m sure I’ll have mixed emotions being there!
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Can you make the short drive up to Storrs and spraypaint JUNGLE on the buildings for me?

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  8. angela Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 8:48 am

    I still live in the state where I went to college, and we try to go tailgating (I mean “go to a football game” once a year.) It’s crazy how different it is. The once-monikered “student ghetto” has been renovated to include it’s own health club-type workout area and there are cabs lining the streets to take students to new and improved, fancy apartments way off campus.

    Bring back the Jungle :)

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  9. Amy Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 9:03 am

    Hahahaha!!! The Jungle is WAY cooler than North Campus.
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  10. Kmama Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 9:39 am

    Ha! My husband and I try to visit our alma mater every year on our anniversary (there’s a casino resort in town…we’re not geeky enough to go back there just to visit the college!). Things have changed soooo much. My freshman year, I lived in what we called “The Projects”. They were three towers connected by a central building. They built a couple more, modern towers since we were there and now they aren’t called “The Projects” anymore.

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  11. Caitlin's Concepts Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 10:51 am

    Oh lord. The phone call conversation actually reminded me of the parking lot scene in Fried Green Tomatoes..
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  12. julie gardner Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:01 pm

    I will be honest. I do not laugh out loud often. I love to smile, chuckle to myself (inwardly), be amused.

    But LAUGHING OUT LOUD doesn’t happen for me often.

    Your last line, about the phone call aging you in dog years?

    I hope you could hear me laughing from here.

    Love love love.
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  13. Carolyn (temysmom) Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:25 pm

    So funny. Are you originally from CT? Where? I grew up in Stamford but went to college in PA. I didn’t want to go to UCONN and relive my high school years all over again since pretty much everyone in my high school went there.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Grew up 20 minutes from there. Got into Penn State early decision but the out-of-state tuition was too much for us at that time. So UConn it was, where I had people I graduated with living on the same floor as me. It was like 13th grade in some ways.

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  14. KIr Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:26 pm

    I laughed too and then sighed…like really sat back in my chair and sighed, like “what the hell has happened to the FUN Times of our youth?

    I did love this post, you actually made me remember making “WINDSHIELD WASHER FLUID” ..which was blue raspberry Kool Aid and grain alcohol. Yummy…I mean Yuk. I do miss those days of carefree living…

    hoping they know how to bring Jungle back…how cool that would really be.
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  15. By Word of Mouth Musings Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:27 pm

    And I am older than you to be sure …
    But in dog years I am merely nearly a tween :)

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    Cheryl Reply:

    Oh, I don’t know if you are older. I only appear young because I’m so immature.

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  16. Alexandra Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 2:53 pm

    AARGH!! Finally.

    I have been trying to get to your post on and off all morning…and now, my first comment..vanished with a 404 error msg.

    Thanks, today, internet but you will NOT keep Cheryl and I apart.
    And how cool would it be to show up at BlogHer with T shirts that say, “bring the jungle back.”

    I’m game.
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  17. Miri Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 3:04 pm

    You are hysterical. I hate feeling old. I’m only 26 but my SILs are really young, 19 and 21 and I keep hearing myself say “I don’t know if you’d remember this” when I’m talking to them about something political 10 years ago.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Good lord, woman. I have socks older than you!

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  18. Leighann Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 3:29 pm

    I’d rather live in a jungle than a campus.

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  19. The Mommyologist Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 4:31 pm

    My best friend lived in The Jungle at UCONN! And I live 20 min. from there now!
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    Cheryl Reply:

    You do? I didn’t know that! I grew up 20 minutes from there!

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  20. Crystal Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 4:39 pm

    lol!!! Don’t you hate talking to young people! Gag me!! They make me feel ancient. They aren’t even old enough to know what they don’t know…(it made sense in my head…just work with me!)Anywho, I’m not big on change. I’m even less ok with it when the young crowd changes things! Little stinkers!!
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  21. Rudri Bhatt Patel @ Being Rudri Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 4:58 pm

    Personally I prefer “The Jungle”. How boring is the name North Campus?
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  22. Renee Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 5:22 pm

    And I totally skipped college.
    So not only do I feel waaay old? (over 50)
    I also feel waaay uneducated.

    Sigh.
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    Cheryl Reply:

    Wait – I was supposed to get an education at college? Now you tell me!

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  23. NotJustAnotherJennifer Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 6:07 pm

    So harsh. The last time I went back to Colorado State was for a sorority 10 yr reunion about 5 years ago. We went to a bar, Potts, and they used to have Tuesday Teas – Long Island’s for two bucks or something. Anyway, we were the Rams and our colors were green and gold, so they had a Midori tea that was called a Ram tea. We get to the bar, and it’s 7ish. Most of the people there are adults. Like parents. We think, oh, it’s just that it’s still early. The crazy college kids won’t get here for a couple of hours. We order dinner and all decide a round of Ram teas is in order. The waitress had no freaking clue what we were talking about. That should have been our first sign. We try to explain it to her, she tries to have the bartender make them. They suck. Or maybe my memory of them is better than they were in reality. Either way. So we’ve eaten, had a couple of drinks, it’s 10pm. We look around. We are the youngest people there. WTH??? SO out of it. Sigh.
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  24. joann Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 6:33 pm

    BAHAHAH! maybe they changed the name because they are all studying and being adult.
    Maybe you’re the kid.

    HA!
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  25. Shell Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 7:27 pm

    Oh, OUCH!

    It’s totally unfair to have things changed. My college? Knocked down the building where I took all of my education classes and built a pretty new building. WTH?

    They also stopped having Saturday classes, the year after I graduated. Not fair. Other generations of students need to be tortured, too.

    One of my very best friends from college went to UConn…for like a week and then he transferred to my school. No real idea why, since it sounds like y’all had a blast in the jungle!

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  26. Jack Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 7:34 pm

    This week I encountered several people who have never seen The Brady Bunch. They are in their twenties, wasn’t like I was talking about My Three Sons.

    So after they beat me down with sorrow over not understanding the Johnny Bravo references I took a chance and threw out another age bomb.

    At breakfast last month Shawn Cassidy sat at the table next to mine. Mind you, I am an LA native and not star struck, but I was curious to see how they’d react.

    They didn’t. So I did what any good big brother would do and called my little sister. She used to have his poster on the wall. And then I let her know that she is so old the twenty somethings have no clue who her crushes were.

    Hah. She’ll be in 40 in April. I love telling her hold she is, course I am older but that is not the point.
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  27. Jen Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 9:37 pm

    Well, I thought that was going really, really well. I was totally digging it and wanted to live in that dorm but then again, I what do I know about kids these days?
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  28. Lori @ In Pursuit of Martha Points Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 9:49 pm

    “My DAD calls it that???”

    At that point your are entitled to scream at her and make her send YOU money!

    Good lord!!!!
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  29. Katie Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 9:49 pm

    I went to grad school at the same U that I did my bachelors. I felt like I was 80 going back there for class…and they built whole new BUILDINGS in the middle of campus in the 2 year break I had between degrees. WHAT?
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  30. Sherri Says:

    February 23rd, 2011 at 11:25 pm

    Oh Cheryl, I feel your pain!! I get those calls from my alma mater, and just knowing that I could be this kid’s mother makes me cringe. Usually after we’ve had some discussion of the bars on the square and whether the old burrito place is still open.

    Oh, but the Jungle sounds awesome. They should totally bring it back!
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  31. Melissa (Confessions of a Dr.Mom) Says:

    February 24th, 2011 at 1:06 am

    That would be so retro and cool.

    I had this sad realization over the weekend…I’m old enough to be the mother of some of the mothers I see in my clinic (cringe).
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  32. Cheryl D. Says:

    February 24th, 2011 at 2:15 am

    The Jungle has so much more character than North Campus. Gag! Don’t those kids know how to have fun anymore?
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  33. CDG Says:

    February 24th, 2011 at 10:19 pm

    The field behind the big (Jungle-esque) freshman dorm at Middlebury is also a “beach” for bikini-clad girls in the first rays of pre-summer sun!

    And now? they birthed a Quidditch League there.

    Plus ça change, y’know?
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  34. Grams Says:

    February 24th, 2011 at 10:23 pm

    Yeah! I realized last week that the kids I’m teaching this year in middle school were born the year my daughter graduated high school. I’m old too!
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  35. Leigh Ann Says:

    February 26th, 2011 at 5:05 pm

    The Jungle sounds awesome. I lived on campus at UT in a huge dorm designed by a guy who designed prisons. But it ruled. After I moved off campus but before I even graduated, they were building fancy schmancy new dorms everywhere — and demolishing nice fields and tracks where I used to work out and people used to congregate. So more buildings, less space. I get so sad because the campus just isn’t the same anymore.
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  36. Karan Conover Says:

    August 5th, 2011 at 9:16 pm

    My son just found out he is in “North Campus” (New Haven Hall), aka The Jungle. I hope they don’t bring it back. I remember those days.

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